I Am: The Two Words That Shape Your Destiny

By Sahar Raman Deep

There are words that describe. There are words that command. And then there are words that create. Among all the phrases known to human language, none are as quietly powerful—nor as easily misunderstood—as the two words: “I Am.”

We use them daily, often without thinking. I am tired. I am not good at this. I am always late. But in that very casualness lies the danger—and the miracle. Because what follows “I Am” does not just describe your mood. It builds the very framework of your identity. It is the raw declaration of how you see yourself—and, more importantly, how you teach the world to see you.

In the sacred pages of the Book of Exodus, when Moses asks God His name, God replies, “I Am That I Am.” In Hebrew, the phrase is Ehyeh asher ehyeh—an unnameable, ungraspable presence that simply is. God does not identify with a title, tribe, or task. He identifies with being itself.

And this is not just theology—it is ontology, the very study of existence. The ancient Indian Upanishads echo this wisdom in the phrase Tat Tvam Asi—“You Are That.” That which you are seeking is not outside you. You already are it. The same texts declare Aham Brahmasmi—“I Am the Absolute.” Not in arrogance, but in realization.

And yet, how far we’ve strayed from this recognition. For most of us, “I Am” has become a trap. We say, “I am not enough,” “I am broken,” or “I am not creative.” But each repetition of these phrases wires our brain to believe them, builds neural pathways of limitation, and sculpts our lives around false narratives. Neuroscience now confirms what mystics always knew: words carry vibration, and repeated affirmations—good or bad—etch themselves into our consciousness like grooves on stone.

Take Maya, for instance—a young woman who spent most of her early life convinced she wasn’t creative. Why? Because an art teacher once compared her to a cousin who drew better. That one moment planted a lifelong belief. She pursued sciences, became an anxious perfectionist, and disconnected from her inner joy. Years later, through art therapy, something shifted. She began to paint again—messily, freely. And with each stroke, she rewrote her story. Today, Maya is a full-time illustrator. She signs her work with the words, “I Am Creative.”

Maya’s journey is not rare—it’s universal. The moment you change what follows “I Am,” you change your trajectory. This is echoed in the words of Nelson Mandela, who, despite spending 27 years behind bars, emerged without bitterness. He refused to say “I am a prisoner.” Instead, he chose to say, “I am free in my mind.” That freedom lit a fire in others and shaped the future of a nation.

The same sense of transformation pulses through the poetry of Walt Whitman. In Song of Myself, he writes: “Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.)” Whitman’s “I Am” is not fixed—it is ever expanding, capable of containing grief and joy, stillness and chaos. That’s the essence of a true human being: not a simple label, but a living galaxy.

Across cultures and centuries, poets have used “I Am” as a mirror for the soul. Rumi, the great Sufi mystic, wrote: “Try to be like the moon in the sky. Say: I am nothing but light.” Here, “I Am” becomes not an egoic claim, but a humble clarity. Similarly, Kabir, the Indian saint-poet, dissolved the self altogether when he wrote: “I went looking for myself. I found no one. Then I heard a voice: ‘I am you.’” In the modern era, Maya Angelou reframed “I Am” as a call to pride and presence: “I’m a woman, phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, that’s me.”

Whether mystical or defiant, each of these voices teaches one truth: You are not your limitations. You are your declarations.

Existential philosophers took this further. Jean-Paul Sartre famously said, “Existence precedes essence.” Meaning: we are not born with a fixed identity. We create ourselves through choice. Albert Camus, writing from the depths of war and loss, added: “In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.” Even when the world is absurd, you can still choose what comes after “I Am.” That choice is your rebellion. That choice is your redemption.

So, pause with me here. Close your eyes. Place your hand on your heart. And whisper gently: “I Am Enough.” “I Am Becoming.” “I Am Who I Was Born to Be.” This is not woo-woo affirmation. This is quantum reality. This is soul architecture.

Every morning, you wake up with a blank canvas. You can continue writing “I am tired, I am invisible, I am unlucky”—or you can write something new. Try this: Write down five negative “I Am” statements you’ve unconsciously repeated. Then rewrite them. Transform “I am always behind” into “I am learning at my own pace.” Shift “I am stuck” into “I am gathering strength.”

Make “I Am” your daily mantra. Because you don’t need to become someone else. You need to remember who you already are.

“You are the universe in ecstatic motion.” — Rumi

And that, my dear reader, is what you are. I Am. Say it again. And this time, mean it.

The Science Behind Love: A Deep Dive into Human Connection

Love is one of humanity’s most profound and complex emotions. While poets and philosophers have long explored its mysteries, science offers its own insights into the biological and neurological underpinnings of love. Let’s delve into the scientific basis of love, exploring how hormones, neurotransmitters, and brain structures create the feelings that bind us together.

 The Chemistry of Love

*Oxytocin: The Love Hormone

Oxytocin, often called the “love hormone” or “cuddle chemical,” plays a crucial role in bonding and attachment. This hormone is released during intimate moments such as hugging, kissing, and sexual activity. Studies show that oxytocin levels rise during the initial stages of romantic love and remain influential in long-term relationship satisfaction.

*Dopamine: The Pleasure Chemical

Dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward, surges when we fall in love. This increase in dopamine leads to feelings of euphoria, heightened energy, and a focused attention on the beloved. The effects of dopamine in romantic love are similar to those seen in addiction, explaining why love can feel like an obsession.

*Serotonin: The Mood Regulator

Serotonin levels drop during the early stages of romantic love, contributing to the obsessive thoughts and intense focus on a partner. This decrease in serotonin levels mirrors the biochemical profile observed in individuals with obsessive-compulsive disorder, highlighting the intensity of early romantic infatuation.

The Brain’s Role in Love

*Key Brain Regions

Neuroscientific research has pinpointed specific brain regions activated during feelings of love, such as the ventral tegmental area (VTA) and the caudate nucleus. These areas are rich in dopamine receptors and are part of the brain’s reward system, reinforcing the pleasurable aspects of romantic attachment.

*Cognitive Processes and Emotional Regulation

The prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making and social behavior, helps navigate the complexities of romantic relationships. Meanwhile, emotional regulation areas like the amygdala ensure that our emotional responses are appropriate and conducive to maintaining bonds.

Evolutionary Perspectives

From an evolutionary standpoint, love is believed to have developed as a mechanism to promote pair bonding and cooperative child-rearing, enhancing the survival of offspring. The attachment and mutual support between partners increase the chances of successful reproduction and long-term care of children.

What did we understand from the above discussion?

The scientific basis of love is a dynamic interplay of hormones, neurotransmitters, and brain regions. This blend of biochemical processes and evolutionary adaptations creates the rich tapestry of human affection and attachment. Understanding these mechanisms sheds light on the nature of love and provides insight into the universal human experience of forming deep, meaningful connections.

By exploring the science behind love, we gain a deeper appreciation for the biological and neurological foundations of one of our most cherished emotions. Whether you’re in the throes of new love or nurturing a long-term relationship, these scientific insights remind us that love is as much about chemistry and brain activity as it is about the heart.

Welcome to the Beginning: SRD’s Universe of Words and Wisdom

Greetings, and welcome to the very heart of my digital sanctuary. I am SRD, a poet at heart, a meditator by spirit, and a coach by passion. With Masters degrees in English Literature and Philosophy, my life’s work is dedicated to exploring the vast landscapes of the human condition, through the nuanced art of poetry and the tranquil path of meditation.

A Journey Through Words

My adventure with words began in the whispers of my childhood, where poetry became my first language of expression. Not long after, at the tender age of thirteen, meditation introduced me to the profound silences that words could not reach. This duality of expression and silence has been the cornerstone of my journey, shaping my perspective on life, creativity, and personal growth.

The Mission of Healing and Guidance

With an unwavering belief in the transformative power of mindfulness and creative expression, my mission extends beyond the pages of poetry. It reaches into the very essence of being, guiding individuals towards clearing energy blocks, achieving mental clarity, and fostering an enriched life. This website serves as a bridge, connecting you to the essence of my experiences, learnings, and the profound beauty of living a life attuned to one’s inner self.

‘TheUnsaid’: Echoes of My Soul

In my poetry book ‘TheUnsaid’, available on Amazon, I invite you to embark on a journey into the depths of unspoken emotions and uncharted thoughts. It is here, through the rhythm and flow of words, that I bare my soul, offering readers a companion in their moments of solitude and reflection.

What to Expect From This Space

This digital space is conceived as a haven for those yearning to explore the realms of mindfulness, creativity, and personal development. Here, you will find:

– Insights on Meditation: Techniques and reflections to deepen your meditation practice.

– Poetry and Creative Expression:*Regular posts to inspire your creative journey and share the magic of poetry.

– Personal Growth Tips: Practical advice and philosophical musings to encourage self-improvement and mental clarity.

– Interactive Sessions: Opportunities to engage directly with me, delving deeper into the intricacies of poetry, meditation, and personal growth.

Join Me on This Enchanting Journey

As we embark on this journey together, I invite you to dive deep into the exploration of your inner self, to uncover the treasures that lie within the realm of mindfulness and creativity. Let this be the beginning of a beautiful voyage towards understanding, healing, and expressing the unsaid nuances of our existence.

Thank you for stepping into my world. Together, let’s unfold the pages of this journey, one word, one breath at a time.

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